Dog Separation Anxiety

Why is my dog ok alone in the car, but not at home??

The most likely explanation might just be that you were much more careful about leaving your puppy alone in the car, than about leaving them at home. 

You’ve probably started with quickly getting petrol, while your pup waited for you in the car. With you in view, just a few moments, all felt safe for your little friend. Then a quick dash into a shop here and there, leaving it a little longer every time.

So they’ve gradually got used to being in the car on their own. And there have never been any scary absences.

It’s a predictable and therefore a safe routine for them. 

And here’s the great news; if your dog got used to being alone in the car via using the method of gradual exposure, the same method we are using to get them to be ok with being home alone, they can also learn just that 💪❤️🐕

Common mistakes in Separation Anxiety training and how to avoid them

Avoid merely waiting for the clock to tick away, meaning don’t just step out and watch until your dog can’t hold it together any longer and take that as your baseline for your training plan. Instead, ensure your dog has an enjoyable experiences while alone at home through observing your dog closely and ensuring you spot the small stress signals - gradually shifting their emotional response from fear to confidence. It's crucial to provide opportunities for your dog to have fun without stress during solo time.

Does crate training help separation anxiety?

The internet and world of social media is still full of advice to simply pop your dog in a crate to prevent him or her feeling anxious when home alone. 

But fact is: a lot of dogs who struggle with separation related behaviours are prone to being easily overwhelmed by extra stressors. And for a lot of dogs, a crate does cause extra stress. 

Firstly, ask yourself, does my dog actually like being in a crate. And REALLY have a good think about it. Plenty of dogs have learned to ‘shut down’ when in the crate AKA they’ve learned that there’s no way out, and this can often look like they are ok when in fact they are certainly not.

Easing back into separation anxiety training post Christmas holidays

The holiday season is a time of joy, festivities, and quality time spent with loved ones, including our beloved furry friends. However, as the decorations come down and the routines return to normal, some dogs may struggle with separation related issues, especially if they've grown accustomed to constant company during the festive season. 

You may have been making great progress with your dog's separation anxiety training prior to the holidays and now find yourself back to square one, or you may find that your dog, who’s never struggled with being home alone before, suddenly changed his/ her mind. 

Here's a guide on how to help your canine companion ease back into separation anxiety training post-Christmas holidays.

Separation Related Behaviours and medication - Wolfgang's example

Each dog is different; some dogs don’t need the help of meds to learn to feel comfortable being home alone, and some dogs do. And for some of those dogs the anti-anxiety effects of a single medication may not be sufficient. 

Wolfgang has been on Clomicalm for a while, with great results. 

However, her brilliant vet and I have discussed trying Gabapentin additionally as she suspected potential neuropathic pain. And after consulting a vet behaviourist on the matter, we decided to give it a go.

And wow, Wolfgang, who is 11, has (almost) transformed into a puppy again. 

And she’s doing even better with her absence training!!!